Dear BirthMother,
If you have stumbled upon this page, you are searching...searching for answers,
hope, guidance, wisdom, choices, and simple ----a listening ear. You could use a hug, just a talk, and maybe even
a good cry.
You may have found yourself in a pregnancy
that you did not plan for this time in your life. That is okay. You can work through this. A pregnancy
is a blessing to someone--somewhere. It could be a blessing for you, It could be a blessing for a couple that has prayed
and prayed for a baby. Either way--it IS a blessing.
You
have choices: you can parent, you can ask your family to parent, you can ask the family of the baby's father to parent,
you can choose adoption------there are some choices. They may be possible, they may be something you would never
give another thought to-----but I can can tell you this ADOPTION works.
Adoption can give you choices. You can help choose a couple for your child.
You can choose to have information about your child in the future. You can choose a closed adoption, if you wish--but
the door is open if you ever want to change your mind.
Our
agency can help you choose a wonderful approved couple that is waiting to fill their home with a rocking chair and lullabies.
Our agency can also talk with you about any questions you may have regarding your legal situation--especially regarding the
birthfather. You have rights and you can place your baby for adoption--without him.
ACCORDING TO NC ADOPTION STATUTES, LICENSED AGENCIES AND APPROVED ADOPTIVE
COUPLES can also help you financially with your monthly expenses during your pregnancy and provide you with
financial assistance after placement in order for you to have a way to get back on your feet. All you have to do is
call me or email me. I will answer you honestly and talk with you with----- no judging. You are loved and
prayed for and I want you treated as if you were my daughter. That is as honest as I can be.........so call me----or
email me-----just know I am here..........You take care, Julia
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"LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT THE WOMEN UPON MY PATH" I am going to speak to you with
truth. I am going to tell you about the remarkable women that have been placed in my path while doing adoption work. I have
assisted nurses, professors, attorneys, students, the ill, the poor, the rich, the weak, the strong, the employed, the unemployed
and all these women have one thing in common. They chose LIFE for the baby God blessed them with. YES! YES! YES!
Your pregnancy, planned or unplanned is a blessing---either to you or to a praying adoptive
couple. I have counseled with the women placed in my path, I have prayed with them, I have fed them, I have clothed them,
I have laughed with them and I have cried with them......An unexpected pregnancy is emotional and honestly, you have a quick
rememdy option, but I beg you--don't go there, please do not make that call or appointment....
PLEASE call me and let us help you help your heart, your soul, your precious baby. Adoption can be the
biggest blessing of your life. It is a decision you will not regret because by choosing life you choose to do good, you choose
to do the will of God which is to give your child life. Let the little boy you carry now play little league baseball--or the
little girl you carry become a ballerina--
Many of the women in my path
have contact with me to this very day. Many have contact with the children they placed for adoption. Whatever your life has
in front of you right now, think about ADOPTION, think about the ten little toes and ten little feet you have right there
under your beating heart......you can call me, you can email me, we can talk..........I am praying for you and you do not
even know me----but you are cared for and loved. I HOPE and PRAY you are in my path!!!!! -----make that call--828-465-7005
email me at juliachilders@msn.com
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IF you are seeking information about adoption, I understand it is frightening. It may be hard to make that
phone call. Please be assured you will be treated with kindness and your privacy will be honored. If a phone call seems difficult,
or you want to keep your conversation private, consider sending an email. I will answer as soon as possible and make every
effort to assist you with your situation. I understand this is an emotional time. I encourage you to email me at juliachilders@msn.com
Your information is private and confidential. You have our trust.
Our
Agency, based in NC can assist any pregnant woman in any state in the US. I AM LICENSED TO
PROVIDE CLINICAL SOCIAL WORK AND COUNSELING SERVICES IN NORTH CAROLINA AND HAVE MANY YEARS OF EXPERIENCE COUNSELING IN MANY
DIFFERENT AREAS.
I really hope we talk soon.
